The Truth About Making Over Your Man

You 've been together for a while, but you're not entirely happy with your relationship and your guy. Can you change your man? Should you even try?

The Need to be Needed. Why do women remain in bad relationships with the hopes of changing their men? "It is the need to be needed by that person". They have an illusion that their love can FIX the person. It all stems from a problem with self-esteem. Some women are attracted to and purposely hook up with a "bad boy" or someone who is totally not right for them-and perceive themselves as the fixer or rescuer. "It's an illusion, but it's really for them to feel good". Indeed, there are women out there who are attractive, career-driven, and financially capable, but who are unable to enjoy the fruits of their success unless they're with a man. What's worse is that some women can't even feel or realize how successful they are unless they're with a man who they can FIX. Quite often when we are attracted to people with whom we stand no chance of having a lasting relationship with, it is because our own self-esteem is lacking. when we don't believe we deserve love, we get ourselves into situations in which our belief system is supported.

"Man Makeover Myths"

1."I'll be the one to change him"

2. "My love will change him"

3. "He says he loves me, so he'll change for me"

4. "It will get better as time passes"

5."He needs me"