5 Surprising Habits to Boost your BOND

Yes, you're deliriously happy in love with your guy. And living in coupledom with him is awesome. Well, strange as it sounds, the best way to keep things going strong is to act like you're a single girl "occasionally". There are elements on the mind-set and behavior you have when you're not paired up that can encourage your bond to grow once you've met your mate. Unleashing that SEXY, SPONTANEOUS side of you-which is so active when you're solo-will keep your confidence at itspeak and your man enthralled:

You + Him... only better

. TREAT HIM LIKE A PIECE OF MEAT. Single girls are in the habit of ogling gorgeous guys. Their stud radar is on, and when they find a man who makes them boil over, they can enjoy the thrill of hungry wild lust. (hey i'm not trying to promote lust here!). Once you're a twosome,however that pure hunger can abate as you forge a stronger emotional connection,"says Los Angeles psychotherapist Nancy Irwin, PhD.

But rather than trade in one type of pleasure ride for another, strike the perfect balance by occasionally traveling back-in your mind-and seeing your man as a hot piece of ass again that you just have to have. Ok Here's why: While emotional sex makes you feel so close, the excitement of "animal" sex can completely recharge your connection. Showing this kind of passion and desire makes you feel sexy and totally turns him on. Here's a simple mind trick to get you in the mood for some no-emo action. "Conjure up your horniest fantasy or think back to the specifics of the hottest sex you and your man ever had. Focusing on the raw,physical element of sex will get you excited for his hot body and all wild abandon. "By the time you see him,ravaging him will be the only thing on your mind".

II. SHOW HIM THAT YOU'RE MULTI-TALENTED. Fact: Single girls are independent... if for no other reason than that they have to be the one calling the super to complain and fixing the car's flat tire. And back then, you probably liked being your own go-to-girl. Once you're in a relationship however, you naturally begin to depend on each other for certain things. Maybe he deals with your handiwork and you help manage his online bills. Works great, but as a side effect, some of your autonomy slips away. Just dont let the tackle-any-task of you go away completely. Being capable not only empowers you, but it's only also damn sexy in his eyes. Most men don't want a woman who is needy. So when you can handle yourself in any situation and are bold enough to fight your own battles, he knows he has someone worth hanging on to.

III. KEEP YOUR ADVENTUROUS SIDE ALIVE AND STRONG. When you were single, chances are you were up for anything. A day of rock climbing with an out-of-town friend? Sure, there might be some cute guys around. Staking out a hillside because hot guy from your gym goes there? Hell, yeah. (Hell NO!)It's that attitude single girls embody that can keep the sparks flying in your relationship. Being open to new experiences and ideas-and making room for spur-of-the-moment activities-is important than ever once you've found your mate. You have to maintain that wild-card element to keep your connection constantly evolving.

IV. HANG ON TO YOUR MALE FRIENDS. Guy buddies have a way of slipping through the cracks when you're smitten with a new man. But it's really key that you keep your gang of guys around. They can be a huge boost to your self-esteem. And they help you sharpen your guy skills, which has kickbacks of your bond(I agree! 100%).

V. YOU'VE GOT IT SO FLAUNT IT! As a fixture on the single-gal circuit, you probably always made it a point to look good even, when just dashing out for a quick coffee. Having the confidence to be yourself is important, but still making an effort to look hot-because you want to-will have a positive effect on your duo. Men are highly visual creatures. The way you look and dress will always be a driving force in his attraction to you.