JUST A THOUGHT...

Would you fall in love for someone from cyberspace? I mean do you have an idea about the ratio of successful relationships that originates in cyber world? Most asian women these days go for caucasians thru internet.

No gurl! Dont freak out. I don't mean all asian beauty but most of them, honestly. I met my boss through chatting and I have been working for the co. for 3 years now. I took advantage of the internet so that's how I got the job.

Back to the topic~I had problems with my internet connection last week that forced me to visit the nearest internet cafe(yeah they have internet ladies and gentlemen, this is so annoying because it is too obvious that pldt dsl-my isp favored them.) I saw a lots of women~pretty, not so pretty, slim, chubby,young and old ladies chatting with their respective chatmates from around the globe. Thanks to internet for making this possible.

I came to realize that they're here to gain contacts from everywhere or are they looking for a hubby? What do you think? If they are, I will be very glad. At least they know the answer to their needs and they are getting smarter and wiser now. If this will elevate them from their current status then why not? So many factors to consider. Gurl! Just a reminder, you have to need this guy because you love him and not love him because you need him. Main reason has to be Love, some advantages are just advantages and should never be on top.

For the good men on earth, who are looking for ms. right over the net because it is too hard to find someone in their area~pick the right girl who you think is the best. Someone you love and you are 100% sure who Loves you back. Don't just settle for big boobies or thin dumbass. Come to think of it, they also grow old, become ugly and when romance is gone, it is always good to have a companion. What are the characteristics of a good companion? For me, a good companion is someone who shares my interest, understands me and knows me very well. I see myself in him, as crazy as I am.

What are the chances of these cyber relationships to work? I don't know. Life is full of wonders. You really can't tell. I wish it is 100% but I doubt that.... Always remember whatever happens....The world never runs out of men or women. God has reserved someone only for you.

DE-STRESS YOUR DUO

Day-to-day demands can wreak havoc on your love connection. Follow these tips to ensure you stay super tight.

MAKE THE SWITCH. Before you can bond with your babe, recover from the day. "To do this, have a daily ritual that helps you relax", says New York City psychologist Janice D. Bennett, PhD. Try reading a book, doing some yoga, or taking a long shower.

BAN THE BAX. Passing out in front of the T.V is not going to inspire a whole lot of lovin'."If you want to wind down together, switch it off," Bennett says. Instead: Head outside for a walk, listen to some tunes, or eat out.

HAVE A PLAN. "If you're both looking forward to a dateset-up fpr that evening, the daily grind won't get to you as much," says Bennett. Knowing there's a little sugar at the end of the work day makes everything more tolerable.

GET NAKED. Nothing will boost your bond (and distract you from the job) like getting nude together. But skip the candles and soft music (boring!). Really paying attention to each other will inspire closeness and romance," explains Bennett.

5 Surprising Habits to Boost your BOND

Yes, you're deliriously happy in love with your guy. And living in coupledom with him is awesome. Well, strange as it sounds, the best way to keep things going strong is to act like you're a single girl "occasionally". There are elements on the mind-set and behavior you have when you're not paired up that can encourage your bond to grow once you've met your mate. Unleashing that SEXY, SPONTANEOUS side of you-which is so active when you're solo-will keep your confidence at itspeak and your man enthralled:

You + Him... only better

. TREAT HIM LIKE A PIECE OF MEAT. Single girls are in the habit of ogling gorgeous guys. Their stud radar is on, and when they find a man who makes them boil over, they can enjoy the thrill of hungry wild lust. (hey i'm not trying to promote lust here!). Once you're a twosome,however that pure hunger can abate as you forge a stronger emotional connection,"says Los Angeles psychotherapist Nancy Irwin, PhD.

But rather than trade in one type of pleasure ride for another, strike the perfect balance by occasionally traveling back-in your mind-and seeing your man as a hot piece of ass again that you just have to have. Ok Here's why: While emotional sex makes you feel so close, the excitement of "animal" sex can completely recharge your connection. Showing this kind of passion and desire makes you feel sexy and totally turns him on. Here's a simple mind trick to get you in the mood for some no-emo action. "Conjure up your horniest fantasy or think back to the specifics of the hottest sex you and your man ever had. Focusing on the raw,physical element of sex will get you excited for his hot body and all wild abandon. "By the time you see him,ravaging him will be the only thing on your mind".

II. SHOW HIM THAT YOU'RE MULTI-TALENTED. Fact: Single girls are independent... if for no other reason than that they have to be the one calling the super to complain and fixing the car's flat tire. And back then, you probably liked being your own go-to-girl. Once you're in a relationship however, you naturally begin to depend on each other for certain things. Maybe he deals with your handiwork and you help manage his online bills. Works great, but as a side effect, some of your autonomy slips away. Just dont let the tackle-any-task of you go away completely. Being capable not only empowers you, but it's only also damn sexy in his eyes. Most men don't want a woman who is needy. So when you can handle yourself in any situation and are bold enough to fight your own battles, he knows he has someone worth hanging on to.

III. KEEP YOUR ADVENTUROUS SIDE ALIVE AND STRONG. When you were single, chances are you were up for anything. A day of rock climbing with an out-of-town friend? Sure, there might be some cute guys around. Staking out a hillside because hot guy from your gym goes there? Hell, yeah. (Hell NO!)It's that attitude single girls embody that can keep the sparks flying in your relationship. Being open to new experiences and ideas-and making room for spur-of-the-moment activities-is important than ever once you've found your mate. You have to maintain that wild-card element to keep your connection constantly evolving.

IV. HANG ON TO YOUR MALE FRIENDS. Guy buddies have a way of slipping through the cracks when you're smitten with a new man. But it's really key that you keep your gang of guys around. They can be a huge boost to your self-esteem. And they help you sharpen your guy skills, which has kickbacks of your bond(I agree! 100%).

V. YOU'VE GOT IT SO FLAUNT IT! As a fixture on the single-gal circuit, you probably always made it a point to look good even, when just dashing out for a quick coffee. Having the confidence to be yourself is important, but still making an effort to look hot-because you want to-will have a positive effect on your duo. Men are highly visual creatures. The way you look and dress will always be a driving force in his attraction to you.