JUST A THOUGHT...

Would you fall in love for someone from cyberspace? I mean do you have an idea about the ratio of successful relationships that originates in cyber world? Most asian women these days go for caucasians thru internet.

No gurl! Dont freak out. I don't mean all asian beauty but most of them, honestly. I met my boss through chatting and I have been working for the co. for 3 years now. I took advantage of the internet so that's how I got the job.

Back to the topic~I had problems with my internet connection last week that forced me to visit the nearest internet cafe(yeah they have internet ladies and gentlemen, this is so annoying because it is too obvious that pldt dsl-my isp favored them.) I saw a lots of women~pretty, not so pretty, slim, chubby,young and old ladies chatting with their respective chatmates from around the globe. Thanks to internet for making this possible.

I came to realize that they're here to gain contacts from everywhere or are they looking for a hubby? What do you think? If they are, I will be very glad. At least they know the answer to their needs and they are getting smarter and wiser now. If this will elevate them from their current status then why not? So many factors to consider. Gurl! Just a reminder, you have to need this guy because you love him and not love him because you need him. Main reason has to be Love, some advantages are just advantages and should never be on top.

For the good men on earth, who are looking for ms. right over the net because it is too hard to find someone in their area~pick the right girl who you think is the best. Someone you love and you are 100% sure who Loves you back. Don't just settle for big boobies or thin dumbass. Come to think of it, they also grow old, become ugly and when romance is gone, it is always good to have a companion. What are the characteristics of a good companion? For me, a good companion is someone who shares my interest, understands me and knows me very well. I see myself in him, as crazy as I am.

What are the chances of these cyber relationships to work? I don't know. Life is full of wonders. You really can't tell. I wish it is 100% but I doubt that.... Always remember whatever happens....The world never runs out of men or women. God has reserved someone only for you.

DE-STRESS YOUR DUO

Day-to-day demands can wreak havoc on your love connection. Follow these tips to ensure you stay super tight.

MAKE THE SWITCH. Before you can bond with your babe, recover from the day. "To do this, have a daily ritual that helps you relax", says New York City psychologist Janice D. Bennett, PhD. Try reading a book, doing some yoga, or taking a long shower.

BAN THE BAX. Passing out in front of the T.V is not going to inspire a whole lot of lovin'."If you want to wind down together, switch it off," Bennett says. Instead: Head outside for a walk, listen to some tunes, or eat out.

HAVE A PLAN. "If you're both looking forward to a dateset-up fpr that evening, the daily grind won't get to you as much," says Bennett. Knowing there's a little sugar at the end of the work day makes everything more tolerable.

GET NAKED. Nothing will boost your bond (and distract you from the job) like getting nude together. But skip the candles and soft music (boring!). Really paying attention to each other will inspire closeness and romance," explains Bennett.

How to WOW your GIRL on your Date

Even if your anniversary or your monthsarry is not for another couple of months. It's never too early to put more romance into the relationship. Start by upgrading your dates.
Here are some sweet, non-mushy ways to channel Cupid then make her love you even more.

Tune In to Her Tastes. Most guys think romance equals a dozen roses. To really earn pogi points with your girl, you have to do your homework and figure out what she's into. "Paying attention to her favorite flower, food, and wine shows that you care about and understand her" says Carolyn Bushong, author of Bring Back the Man You Fell Inlove With.

Turn It Into an Event. A romantic date should feel superspecial-like prom night, minus the limo and corsage. Meaning: Make it a production". Anyone can drop money on dinner but when you put time and effort into planning something extraordinary for your girlfriend, it will be more appreciated.

Go Old-School. No, you dont have to throw your jacket over a puddle or anything but a little bit of chivalry can't hurt. "Everyone likes to be nurtured. That's why simple gestures like pulling out her chair, helping carry her things, or just opening the door for her will make her feel taken care of."

Make Her Feel Special. Compliments are always nice, but what's even better is showing your girlfriend that you only have eyes for her. "You want her to feel like she's number one". Put all of your about any dreams she has, maintain eye contact, and touch her hand while you're talking. You can even use a not-so-cheesy line line like "I think you're the hottest girl here". That should guarantee you some loving later.